A little thought about beauty in patriarchy

If a woman wants to be sexy to a man, to make him fall in love with her, she should instil into him the feeling of control and predictability over her behaviour. She may be nonconformist and have daring ideas, but all this audacity should look familiar to him, she may be nonconformist in the way he accepts it. This is the “love” in patriarchy. A woman may be a more complex object, but still an object. Maybe she can behave like a sophisticated robot, but still a tool for male use. If she’s unpredictable, she’s crazy, and that man will not “love” her. Cosmetics is complicated, but freedom for women in patriarchy is only cosmetic.