Si una mujer quiere ser sexy para un hombre, para que se enamore de ella, Ella debe inculcarle el sentimiento de control y previsibilidad sobre su comportamiento.. Ella puede ser inconformista y tener ideas atrevidas, but all this audacity should look familiar to him, she may be nonconformist in the way he accepts it. This is the “love” in patriarchy. A woman may be a more complex object, but still an object. Maybe she can behave like a sophisticated robot, but still a tool for male use. If she’s unpredictable, she’s crazy, and that man will not “love” her. Cosmetics is complicated, but freedom for women in patriarchy is only cosmetic.