Celebration of patriarchal relationships

Today, patriarchal relationships, based on buying and corrupting women with gifts, are celebrated. We need to celebrate free relationships, based on real female choice and pleasure. Have we such a feast? No. We need such a day for celebrating female free initiation and choice in relationships. We have to celebrate lesbianism. But if free, equal, pleasant het relationships initiated by women are possible (which I doubt), we have to celebrate them too. Free choice and love for women! Not female material enslaving in patriarchy!