Om en kvinna vill vara sexig för en man, att få honom att bli kär i henne, Hon borde införa honom känslan av kontroll och förutsägbarhet över hennes beteende. Hon kan vara nonconformist och ha vågiga idéer, but all this audacity should look familiar to him, she may be nonconformist in the way he accepts it. This is the “love” in patriarchy. A woman may be a more complex object, but still an object. Maybe she can behave like a sophisticated robot, but still a tool for male use. If she’s unpredictable, she’s crazy, and that man will not “love” her. Cosmetics is complicated, but freedom for women in patriarchy is only cosmetic.