父权制下的异性关系对女性来说是有毒的. 如果他们想建立这样的关系, 女性必须证明自己的父权价值, IE。, 顺从的天赋. 如果他们想维持他们的关系, 他们必须继续顺从, 伪造的, 他们不得不放弃自己的梦想, 尊严, 和对幸福的追求. Such relationships are only for a little material and social security, not for happiness. Because women have no real access to resources, they are exploited. This shows what women are in patriarchy: slaves. Only slaves live for survival.
Society is not interested in women happiness and well-being. If so, such relationships would have been forbidden and women would have been protected against them by law. 现在, in quarantine and isolation, women are in a bigger danger at home than in the open. Because domestic violence kills more women than this virus. But women safety doesn’t matter. Maybe domestic violence should be named “patriarchal violence”. Women are beaten and killed because they express themselves, they tell what they don’t like, because they don’t behave like slaves. A woman who doesn’t play her part as an object may be killed.