如果女人想對男人性感, 讓他愛上她, 她應該向他灌輸對自己行為的控制感和可預測性. 她可能不墨守成規,有大膽的想法, 但所有這些大膽行為對他來說應該都很熟悉, she may be nonconformist in the way he accepts it. This is the “love” in patriarchy. A woman may be a more complex object, but still an object. Maybe she can behave like a sophisticated robot, but still a tool for male use. If she’s unpredictable, she’s crazy, and that man will not “love” her. Cosmetics is complicated, but freedom for women in patriarchy is only cosmetic.
